感谢不完美。

人生真的存在着很多的不完美，很多的瑕疵... 有的时候真的很令人发指。
但是也很感谢这些，人生才算得上是完整的。

在家里，我们一样会争吵，冷战... 不爽谁谁谁... 但是，永远... 哪天，你身体某部位疼了，父母亲都是最着急的；你被外人欺凌了，兄长就是第一时间给你出头；哪天，你哭了，妹妹会给你tissues，让你擦泪....

就算是生长在同一个家庭里头，灌输的人生价值观相同，理应看待事情的态度都会一致的，但是，奇妙的是，我们每一个人从小遇见的人事物都不可能100%相似。在家里，我们一样会有异议... 更何况和朋友之间的相处，怎么可能会完美得天衣无缝呢？

每一个人对每一件事情的评论会都会不同。类似的，我们会达到共识；不类似的，我们心里会自动地取决谁是谁非。对你而言重要的，对我而言也可能只是普通而已...

也因为这样，人生就有一种学问叫作谦让，叫作妥协。

如果，你知道。人生其实并没有我们想象中的漫长。你就不会对身边的每一件事情都那么的执着。退一步不是让别人取胜，而是放过自己，让自己的心放开，装下更多的快乐与满足。

还是恭祝各位， 
新年快乐!!!

FEB

Here comes the second month in 2013-- February. My fav Jan has ady gone... Havent really enjoyed it thoroughly.... It's ady gone now, forever gone....

Why am I so busy??
Or am I really busy??? for what??

for sth called L.I.F.E

Am satisfied tho... at least, I am really doing things on my own....
I make decisions, I plan my schedule thoroughly... No one seems able to "control" me anymore..

Yupe, I guess I'm growing.. size, of course, is one thing.... I really like eating, especially those very fancy foods...(ranging from normal dishes to sweets).. that's why I keep putting myself on weight... poor thing.. but let's eat why hesitate... Technically, I'm growing... On the other side, I hope I'm becoming more mature nowadays... I do hope so... Why is this a matter? It is really a matter.... Same as my other friends, we're turning 24 this year (some of them have ady celebrated their 24th bday! Oh gosh).. If we're still being too stubborn with our own defined principles...still tied up with our egos enormously... what's gonna teach us and it'll certainly be ever-lasting is when we start losing things because of those attitudes... Time to "LET GO"!!

Living outside by my own... makes me start appreciating everything more likely... Not like in the past, I was too dependent, too like a wall-flower, too being spoiled .... until I really made myself take everything for granted.. I thought I was really a princess... Never true... I ain't a princess... It was so wrong...

Anyway, now, I do get myself a chance to see what kind of future I really want to pursue... Somehow, I think this chance has let me see things clearer... or has slightly broadened my horizons (maybe this is not true, whatever)... Life has always taught me lessons, every now and then.... It is never the end..

I shouldn't give up... no matter what... someone said, every time you're thinking to quit... then think back what reason you has been holding for so long...

I miss my family and friends... How are you guys?